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gLOVE wrote:My DW and I started a few years ago with some mild films (instructional type) and we would watch them together and kind of "follow along" with what was going on. About 6 months ago on a "horny" night, we went into an adult XXX store and bought 3 porn DVD's with anticipation of watching them together. Since then we have only watched the videos maybe 3 or 4 times.
The reason for my post is, the few times we watched the porn we had amazing sexual experiences. We basically imitated what we saw on screen and of course the sights and sounds were extremely arousing during our love session. All that to say, lately each time I suggest it to my DW she is kind of drawn back from it and says she feels guilty for watching it. I understand what she is saying but if both of us mutally watch together only and both of us get off on it together then is there really a big deal. Should I convince her that it is ok or is it truly wrong to watch it period even if it is together.
gLOVE wrote:Is watching porn with your wife ok??
gLOVE wrote: I thought that since it was mutual and neither of us had to have it or was watching it outside of when we were together then it was ok. Then my DW started questioning if it was right, now I am questioning the same thing.
gLOVE wrote: Thanks for response I will remove them today to avoid any future issues.
gLOVE wrote:DVD porn is gone!! Had a harder time getting rid of it than I thought! Shredded 2 of them and decided to keep 1 for "just in case". DW told me that I'm just having a hard time accepting that I don't "need" them. Next day it was gone!! Saturday night we ML and it was intense!! I think God was blessing our MB for our choices.
All that to say, wife is open to video camera hooked to TV with no recording. She said if she decides to make a video she wants to make sure we have the lighting and position of camera right....I mentioned that I just wanted to make sure "our" positions were right!! She said "they are always right!!" Love was TMB is doing in my MB!
committedcouple wrote: "I didn't think many women would do that?".
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