Hello, I need to be calibrated

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Hello, I need to be calibrated

Postby Higherground » Mon Nov 13, 2017 7:50 pm

Hello all,
I am new to this website and in general sharing my problems. I am married with 5 children , three still at home. Married 27 yrs. I am a christian and want to be pleasing to Christ. I don't know the answer to this question so please help. If your spouse cannot or will not give you sexual pleasure for what ever reason, is it biblically wrong to masterbate with your spouse in mind?

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Re: Hello, I need to be calibrated

Postby OldMarriedLady » Mon Nov 13, 2017 7:59 pm

Hi, and welcome to The Marriage Bed. Please click on this link where you will find instructions on joining Usegroups to see some of our "hidden" sections. Join the Usergroup for the section called "Masturbation in Marriage", and see if your question has been discussed there already in an existing thread. I would suggest also joining the Sexually Refused usergroup, as well as Sexual Changes, Challenges & Difficulties so you can see the "Lack of Desire" section of the board. We also have a section called "Okay, Bad Idea, or Sin?" where you can discuss whether something sexual is right or wrong.
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