Getting Married Tomorrow!

What's supposed to happen on the wedding night? Will it hurt? What if I'm not a virgin? ...
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Getting Married Tomorrow!

Postby ScienceNerd28 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 10:57 am

Hi, everyone; ScienceNerd28 here. My beautiful fiance and I will be saying "I do" tomorrow, and I am just wondering if any married couples have any advice for me about the wedding night. I am really excited, and have never been married before, so I am wondering what I should expect.

Thanks :)

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Re: Getting Married Tomorrow!

Postby OldMarriedLady » Wed Dec 28, 2016 11:08 am

Start by reading these two threads:

Wedding Night 101, Advice to Grooms
Wedding Night 101, Advice to Brides

and then read the rest of the threads in this section. :D
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Re: Getting Married Tomorrow!

Postby SteveS » Thu Dec 29, 2016 5:02 am

Have zero expectations... It's nothing like Hollywood,!!... Just take it one moment at a time...laugh alot and if it's clumsy, it's OK...you have a lifetime to work on it.

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Re: Getting Married Tomorrow!

Postby Leah » Thu Dec 29, 2016 6:15 am

Today's the day! May God bless your day with love and joy.
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Re: Getting Married Tomorrow!

Postby katiecrna » Thu Dec 29, 2016 10:39 am

Have fun!!!

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Re: Getting Married Tomorrow!

Postby ScienceNerd28 » Thu Dec 29, 2016 11:21 am

Hi -- and thank you -- to all the couples who took the time to reply and emails. Wow, I certainly have gleaned a lot from the articles here!

The greatest take-away for me after reading is that wedding nights are not some big production, but a time to relax and get some much-needed rest and grow together and begin to explore giving love and receiving greatfully from each other -- and I am glad I learned that before tonight, it takes a whole lot of weight off my mind.

As you might imagine, I am extremely busy right now and extremely excited about what today (and tonight) holds for us!

God bless and have a great day, everyone!

--ScienceNerd28 from the Pacific Northwest


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