How to help hubby realize O needs more than PIV

Can't orgasm, pain during intercourse, etc.
alibild
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How to help hubby realize O needs more than PIV

Postby alibild » Sun Nov 22, 2015 12:58 pm

So, when we were first married, I was able to O periodically from PIV. However, for the last 9 years (since becoming pregnant for the first time), nothing. And my youngest is 5, so it's not postpartum issues. We recently started working on this again, and I would like to help my husband realize that for many women, PIV doesn't work for achieving an O.

Do any of you know of any "refresher" books or articles that would include this tidbit of info that I can give him to jumpstart the process? Thanks

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Re: How to help hubby realize O needs more than PIV

Postby txtwindad » Sun Nov 22, 2015 1:24 pm

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/al ... -statistic The information is out there everywhere. Are you saying he hasn't done anything other than PIV to bring you to orgasm in 9 years?
 "Baby, Baby go and fetch some water,
Pour it on me so's I don't melt.
Can't you see you've got me burnin' hotter
Than a black vinyl car seat in ..." Two Tons of Steel

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Re: How to help hubby realize O needs more than PIV

Postby alibild » Sun Nov 22, 2015 3:03 pm

Thanks! I hadn't found one as simple and fact based as this. And yes. He's done other things (oral, fingers), but not for the end result of orgasm.


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